So much for the technical aspects of this problem. Coming back to this "etiquette" issue, there is sometimes a problem in that you would like to know for sure whether the user has really made a choice, or has omitted/withheld an answer. But you might not want to encourage them to withhold an answer by including a button that's boldly labelled for the purpose. Nevertheless, in order to make this work, you do really have to include that additional, initially checked, button in the form somehow.
Anything else I seem to have missed???
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